Another amazing thing Montessori figured out is that children need/love to be taught self-care/real world skills. She called this “Practical Life” and it is actually an area of the curriculum, like Language and Math.
And why not? At each stage of life, don’t we like people to gently tell/show us how to do something new, instead of fussing at us when we screw it up? This week at camp, we had to remember to teach the junior counselors how to make juice from frozen concentrate for popsicles and how to wash dishes. Is it shocking that they don’t know, or is it normal that families now buy juice fresh and have dishwashers? As I’m sure you can tell, it shocked me at first, growing up, as I did, in the Black and White Era, I forget these things. And then Montessori invites me to remember what it is like not to know.
And, when it is presented as “look at this”, practical life is fun to practice. “Pouring works” are always popular (see picture above:)), and so are cooking skills, cleaning skills, folding and putting away things skills…if they are taught and not fussed about. Later, there are more skills: how to check the oil in your car, how to save money in a painless way, how to buy life insurance, how to buy a house. It would be nice if someone taught us these things.